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Relationship Advice : Heed It And Find Love

Valuable relationship advice

Everyone needs relationship advice at some point or another. As smooth as he was with the ladies, the main character in the movie "Hitch" (played by Will Smith) needed some help when it came to him "hitching" the woman of his dreams. Ironically, Hitch was a "love doctor" in search of a cure. Too bad his relationship advice couldn't help him out. He had to start from scratch when it came to his personal love life. Maybe if he had some good relationship advice in the beginning, his wooing process would have been a lot less painful.

Painless loving, good advice

Painless loving - like completely good advice for any matter - is a myth. There is always a down side, a catch, a hidden danger, just like there is always some measure of pain and suffering involved with your love. Its natural. Its yin and yang. So adhere to your relationship advice accordingly:

If some one tells you you should see other people - that a separation would be good for you - they are forgetting the good things about your partner that you will sorely miss once they are gone.
Some would advise you to spend more money on your date - to lavish them with gifts and baubles. thats all fine and good, but when it comes right down to it are they after you...or your money?
COnversely, keeping things 100% granola and never spending a dime on your date is disastrous - you have to let them know that they are something special and worth the effort, that they are not simply something to be had.

Whatever relationship advice you receive must be taken with a skeptical grain of salt. The more close your advisor is to the situation the better, but even if its your own advice you always have to second guess it.